When the veil comes first: How to pair a unique wedding veil with a wedding dress

Sometimes the veil comes first. You might have fallen in love with a unique wedding veil or have a family heirloom that's looking for a wedding dress. We share advice on how to create a cohesive bridal look.

As bridal designers and stylists, we often advise brides to find their wedding dress before selecting their veil. The dress typically sets the tone for the entire bridal look, making it easier to choose accessories that complement and enhance the overall ensemble. However, we understand that for some brides, a unique wedding veil holds a special place in their heart, whether it’s the starting point for their wedding vision or a cherished family heirloom. This these cases, the veil becomes the focal point, and the challenge lies in finding a wedding dress that beautifully pairs with it. Come with us as we explore how to navigate the process when the veil comes first, offering guidance on how to create a cohesive and stunning look that honours both the veil and the dress.

1. Understanding the importance of your wedding veil

For some brides, the veil is more than just an accessory—it’s the centrepiece of their look and part of their bridal identity. Whether it’s a unique veil they’ve fall in love with before even thinking about the dress, or a family heirloom passed down through generations, the veil can carry deep emotional significance. When a veil is a family heirloom, it often comes with a rich history and sentimental value. Wearing a veil that has been passed down through the family is a way for brides to honour tradition and feel connected to their loved ones on their special day.

2. Choosing a wedding dress to complement the unique veil

When the veil comes first, the key is to find a wedding dress that complements and enhances the veil rather than competes with it. We recommend brides consider the veil’s style and detail. Take note of the veil’s style, length and any embellishments it may have. Is it a cathedral-length veil with intricate lace? A short birdcage veil with vintage flair? Understanding these details will help you guide your dress selection.

Ensure the dress matches the formality of the veil. A dramatic, floor-length veil pairs well with a more formal gown, while a simpler veil might be better suited to a more relaxed, bohemian dress.

If the veil is heavily embellished with lace, embroidery or beading, opt for a simpler dress to let the veil stand out. Conversely, if the veil is simple an understated, you might choose a dress with more detailed embellishments.

3. Adapting the dress to fit your unique wedding veil

In some cases, you may find a dress you love, but it doesn’t match the veil you’ve chosen. Don’t worry—it’s possible to work with a tailor or designer to make adjustments that bring the dress an veil into harmony. This could include sourcing similar lace patterns to add to the dress or adjusting the neckline to better suit the veil’s placement. Consider adding other accessories like shoes or bridal jewellery that echoes the veil’s details. These small touches can help tie the entire look together.

4. When the veil is a family heirloom

When the veil is a family heirloom, it’s not just about fashion—it’s about honouring tradition. Respect the veil’s integrity and work with a specialist to ensure it’s properly cared for an integrated into your look without causing damage to it.

While the veil may be traditional, don’t be afraid to pair it with a modern dress. This blend of old and new can create a unique, personalised look that reflects both your heritage and your individual style.

You may wish to share the history of the veil with your wedding guests, perhaps through a note in the program or a special mention during the ceremony. This not only honours the tradition of the veil but also adds a meaningful layer to your wedding day.

5. Embracing flexibility

While starting with the veil is less common, it offers a unique opportunity to create a bridal look that’s deeply personal and meaningful. However, flexibility is key. You may need to be open to trying different styles or making adjustments to your initial vision to ensure everything comes together harmoniously.

If you’re unsure how to pair your veil with the right dress, consider working with a bridal stylist. They can offer expert advice and help you find a dress that complements your veil beautifully.

Ultimately, your wedding day is about you and your partner. If starting with the veil feels right to you, trust your instincts and embrace the process. With thoughtful consideration and attention to detail, you can create a bridal look that’s as unique and special as your love story.

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Want more bridal inspiration and tips?

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Need personalised styling advice?

Feel free to send us an email with photos of your wedding dress and bridal hairstyle and we would be happy to send you recommendations and ideas via email.

Every wedding gown and bride is different and the perfect accessories for you will not only depend on your gown but your personal style, vision, height and hairstyle. We love to work with our brides to create the perfect veil that you will love to keep as an heirloom after your wedding day. We are based in Australia and ship worldwide.