Can I wear white again? Debunking the myths of second marriage bridal attire

Are you wondering how to accessorise your second marriage bridal look? Don't let outdated misconceptions dictate your style.

Getting married for the second time is a beautiful opportunity to celebrate love with the wisdom and confidence that comes from life experience. However, many women feel unsure about how to approach their wedding day look the second time around. There are plenty of misconceptions about what a bride ‘should’ wear for her second wedding, from whether she can wear a veil to if white or ivory is still appropriate.

If you’re feeling uncertain about how to accessorise for your second wedding, you’re not alone. The good news is that the ‘rules’ are more flexible than ever, and your wedding day look should be a reflection of who you are now—full of personality, style and the joy of this new chapter in your life. Come with us as we debunk some of the common myths and offer tips on how to create a bridal look that feels authentic and beautiful.

Myth 1: "You can't wear white for a second wedding"

We call nonsense on this. One of the most pervasive misconceptions is that brides should avoid wearing white for a second wedding. This notion is outdated, and today’s brides have the freedom to choose any colour that makes them feel beautiful and confident. If white or ivory is your colour, go for it. White symbolises new beginnings and purity, and there’s no reason why you can’t wear it for your second wedding. Whether you opt for a traditional white gown or a more modern white ensemble, what matters most is how you feel in it.

On the other hand, if you’re looking to try something different, consider exploring other colours. Soft pastels, blush tones, and even bolder hues like gold or silver can be stunning choices. The key is to choose a colour that complements your complexion and aligns with the overall theme of your wedding.

Myth 2: "You shouldn't wear a veil"

Another common myth is that veils are reserved for first-time brides. However, veils are a beautiful and timeless accessory that can add elegance and grace to any bridal look, regardless of whether it’s your first or second wedding. If you’ve always dreamed of wearing a veil, don’t hesitate to do so. From long cathedral veils to shorter, chic birdcage veils, there are plenty of styles to choose from. The key is to select a veil that complements your dress and overall look. For a more mature or sophisticated vibe, you might opt for a simple, understated veil with minimal embellishments.

If a veil doesn’t feel quite right to you, consider other headpieces like tiaras, flower crowns, long shawl or a bridal hat. These options can add a touch of elegance and whimsy to your look while keeping it modern and fresh.

Myth 3: "You need to keep it simple"

There’s a misconception that second weddings should be low-key and that brides should avoid overly elaborate or glamorous attire. While there’s nothing wrong with a simple wedding look, if that’s your style, there’s also no reason you can’t go all out and embrace the glamour if that’s what you want. Your wedding day is a celebration of your love and your unique journey. If you love bold jewellery, dramatic gowns or statement accessories, don’t hold back. This is your day, and it should reflect your personal style. Whether you opt for an understated, elegant look or a more extravagant ensemble, what matters most is that you feel like the best version of yourself.

Myth 4: "You shouldn't wear a traditional gown"

Some brides worry that wearing a traditional wedding gown might feel inappropriate for a second wedding. However, the choice of gown should be entirely up to you and what makes you feel special. Whether it’s a classic ball gown, a sleek sheath, or a sophisticated A-line, the most important thing is you feel comfortable and beautiful in your dress. Consider the setting and formality of your wedding when choosing your gown, but don’t shy away from the traditional styles if that’s what you love.

If you’re looking for something a little different, consider non-traditional bridal attire, such as a chic bridal suit or a cocktail-length or midi dress. These options can be just as elegant and are perfect for a bride who wants a modern and unique look.

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Every wedding gown and bride is different and the perfect accessories for you will not only depend on your gown but your personal style, vision, height and hairstyle. We love to work with our brides to create the perfect veil that you will love to keep as an heirloom after your wedding day. We are based in Australia and ship worldwide.